paul newman's letter to his wife on their wedding day...
“happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. a good marriage must be created. in the Art of Marriage, the little things are the big things. it is never being too old to hold hands. it is remembering to say ‘i love you’ at least once a day. it is never going to sleep angry. it is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon; it should continue through all the years. it is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. it is standing together facing the world. it is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family. it is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. it is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. it is not expecting the husband to wear a halo or the wife to have the wings of an angel. it is not looking for perfection in each other. it is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humor. it is having the capacity to forgive and forget. it is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow. it is finding rooms for things of the spirit. it is a common search for the good and the beautiful. it is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and obligation is reciprocal. it is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner."
such a creative way to store throw blankets. i'm trying to convince my mom to do this in her westport house, she already has a few vintage ladders that would work...maybe i'll just borrow/steal one from her and do it in my own house...
yup, she's a weird one alright...
copy cat chic, you are amazing for finding this comparison...
just discovered the best homemade invention EVER...the DIY scarf holder...a cheapo plastic hanger + cheapo plastic shower curtain rings= BAM, a scarf holder. going to do this the second i get home tonight, my scarves are all over my damn closet floor at the moment and it's driving me insane...
my boss introduced me to this song today by the steeldrivers...it's beautiful, and i can't stop listening to it...
My roots are deeper than the bones the others
my colors they change with the sun
my branches we’re higher than anything on the hillside
on the day that I watched them all come
Some wear the color of the sky in the winter
some we’re as blue as the night
they came like a storm with the light of the morn
and they fell thru the whole day and night
Colors flew high and they danced in the sky
as I watched them come over the hill
then to my wonder sticks that made thunder
such a great number lay still